dear my 2 cents,
I recently broke up with this girl, and we had only
dated for a couple of months. We didnt really end on
good terms, and we had a pretty ugly breakup. She's
the type to call 30 times a day and drive by your
house at night to "see if you're home"...
Apparently now that i am "hard to get" (and still very
sexy), she thinks it would be a good idea for us to
sleep together, only with "no strings attached". now,
i dont claim to be a doctor, but my diagnosis for this
situation is "dude, are you SERIOUSLY considering
this?" But then again, we had awesome sex and it could
potentially be a sweet situation. I don't have any
idea what to do, any ideas?
Dude, are you SERIOUSLY considering this? Just because you wouldn't be officially dating like before does not mean that the calling and driving by your house is going to stop. Honestly, I believe that getting into a sex only relationship with her would make it only worse.
Now, she doesn't have to worry about you cheating on her...but more or less knows you'll be with other girls which is not going to sit well with her. This "no strings attached" crap is not going to last with her...I believe that anyone who is borderline stalker while in a relationship doesn't even know what "no strings attached" means. Even if the sex was awesome, she sounds like a nut job...if you hadn't have had those awful problems with her in the first place I would tell you to go for it but thanks to the background you shared with me, it's a NO GO!
